You’re tired. You’re overwhelmed and feeling insecure about your financial future as an entrepreneur. I hear you.
This episode tackles the common struggle of chasing financial security and abundance while constantly battling internal resistance. If you’ve been trying to think positively about money but still feel stuck and anxious, this episode will resonate with you.
By the end you will:
- Understand why traditional approaches to abundance mindset might be keeping you stuck in financial insecurity.
- Learn how to tap into a deeper sense of internal security that transcends economic fluctuations and market changes.
- Discover practical techniques to shift your focus from anxiety to actionable steps that positively impact your financial situation.
After listening, I recommend episode 123: Eliminate Your Stress Response with Money as an Anxious Entrepreneur Starting TODAY. Click here to listen. https://link.chtbl.com/6HgyxHtp
TRANSCRIPT:
[00:00:00] The more you engage in all of the invitations to think abundant and be abundant, the farther you are away from the freedom, security, and abundance that you are seeking. Thank you to Erika for inspiring this episode. I want to introduce to you guys this concept that’s been so like, this is the concept that has been transformational, both for myself, but really in what I’ve witnessed in my clients. And I think this is a fundamental, difference between the type of coaching and support that’s coming from me because I have a background in trauma therapy and I understand the way that your body relates to things through the nervous system, which is where all the fundamental changes versus somebody else.
[00:00:59] We [00:01:00] want to create an experience where making money through online entrepreneurship is as easy as the laptop lifestyle that they kind of sold you in 2018. It’s as easy as that girl that you follow on Instagram and it’s just, it’s just, it’s just a walk in the park. It’s just because life is good and blissful.
[00:01:17] Life is good and blissful and sometimes this, this is harder. Then we would like it to be. And when that happens, a lot of us run to, a lot of us have, I was this person in the past and I’ve witnessed it. We run to wanting to be abundant, wanting to relate to things in an abundant way, and also expecting things to work out in a c certain way.
[00:01:46] Expecting things to have a specific timeline. We’re doing all of this in pursuit of money security. Feeling secure with your money, not feeling anxious about it. Feeling good [00:02:00] about it, right? Feeling happy, feeling consistent, feeling like you don’t need to work too hard, feeling like you don’t need to worry too much, feeling like it’s safe for you to just go and hang out, then do things that’s our goal.
[00:02:16] When our goal gets difficult, we often look to things such as even this podcast to help us get to our goal faster. That’s really smart. It’s really intelligent. We try to think abundantly, we try to influence our future, we try to make the right decisions, etc. You guys know, we’ve spoken about it in other podcasts, I’m not going to go into it more today.
[00:02:37] What I am going to go into is a thing, the truth behind that. When we do a lot of these things, what we’re doing is we’re kind of playing ping pong with that. Resistance. We’re not accessing the security and the ease and the flow that we’re looking for because we’re spending so much time and energy playing ping pong with that resistance.
[00:02:57] You’re trying to convince the parts of you [00:03:00] that are concerned about money that you don’t have anything to be concerned about, but you can’t actually do that because money is uncertain. And if I was to convince somebody and expect somebody to trust me around something that is uncertain, I’m sorry, but it’s not going to happen.
[00:03:16] You’re. in your mind, your logical mind isn’t going to do that either. It’s not. Totally logical. We have a lot of evidence for it, but for many parts of us, we’re not going to be 100 percent convinced that, yeah, everything’s gonna be totally fine with money. It’s difficult to feel that way when I’m, I can look at my laptop right now and down the bottom, there were like some headliner about, here we go, the hidden costs of home ownership and why they’re on the rise.
[00:03:44] If I’m trying to convince myself that everything’s fine with my future home ownership, it’s just very tiring, just takes a lot of energy. And then all the energy that we’ve spent into convincing ourselves that, I’m now not putting that energy into going [00:04:00] and doing things in the world that actually impact my bank account.
[00:04:06] So, The security that you’re looking for and the sense of ease, even when it feels like things aren’t working is beyond trying to convince yourself that they’re working or trying to figure out the way through. It’s in this place that’s like this, Oh, That’s it’s like you feel it kind of like rising up from your feet and it’s that ability to lean back and when everyone’s looking around and they’re talking about the rising cost of home ownership and Their mental health and how everything is so hard You’re kind of like leaning back and you’re able to drop down into a space inside of yourself that is peaceful and says Mm hmm.
[00:04:46] Yes I can see why you’re experiencing that, but I know that everything is fine. You’re able to find inside of you a security that transcends, I don’t know if I like that word, but it’s here, that [00:05:00] transcends all of the different fluctuations of what’s happening in the economy or in your, or in the stock market or even inside of your sales report.
[00:05:10] And it’s that security that is only found through the breath and through the bones and through the body. It’s only found in the back of yourself. And maybe as you’re listening, you can kind of feel perhaps a tiny little piece of that essence that’s laying inside of you. It’s the part of you that is safe.
[00:05:29] Is connected to intuition, to creativity. Who can imagine things that have never been happened that has ever happened before, and that relies on that same uncertainty that is so scary for your nervous system to create things that haven’t happened before, to live things that haven’t happened before, to create a whole new future for you and your community and your loved ones.
[00:05:52] And it is connected to security and that security is laying only in you. You can only access it when you become [00:06:00] so adept at witnessing without responding to the fluctuations and the fears. that manifests inside of you through thoughts, through feelings, through sensations, through emotions, but at the same time learning to dance with them and take their feedback because they’re smart and they tell you things about the world.
[00:06:24] They tell you when to actually, you know, make some decisions about your home loan or when to look at Maybe the approach that I’m having isn’t working and maybe that’s why I’m feeling so bummed out. You know, I’ve been doing the same thing for a couple of years now, a couple of months and it feels like it’s not working.
[00:06:44] So how can you simultaneously witness that, provide security to that? That’s the, that’s the flavor of security you’re looking for. Take its information and then make wise action to change something when it needs to be [00:07:00]changed. Because if you’re tired and you feel like nothing is working. You might need to change something.
[00:07:07] And if you’re constantly using money to look for some level of security, peace, and ease, you need to know that while it can get you, it can help you create a life in which it’s easier for you to access security, peace, and ease. The true security, peace, and ease, the one that is everlasting, the one that satiates you only comes when you can witness all of that stuff drop down into the back of your lungs, the back of your spine, the back of your legs.
[00:07:38] And rest, which is really hard to do when you, when you’re anxious about your bank account, it’s really hard to do when you’re thinking about your content plan for August. And it’s really hard to do when you’re berating yourself because you feel like you haven’t done enough and your healing isn’t working, but I have a solution for you.
[00:07:54] It is to listen to the next podcast, which is that I’m going to recommend, which [00:08:00] is 123 eliminate your stress response with money as an anxious. Entrepreneur starting today. This is going to give you something to play with to start implementing today. You don’t need to wait. You need to start changing things today because a decision not to change things is a decision to stay exactly the same.
[00:08:21] If you are doing everything the same way, like change something, I don’t care what it is, but change something and change something. Now go ahead and download Episode number 123, eliminate your stress response with money. As an anxious entrepreneur starting today, you will find a link in the show notes.