Ever felt like achieving millionaire status is beyond your reach? I usually keep this for clients but today I’m sharing it with you.
Discover how a somatic approach can shift your mindset and align your nervous system to make financial freedom feel not only possible but inevitable.
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TRANSCRIPT:
[00:00:00] I shared this with a client last week and a client came to me at the beginning of session last week feeling like being a millionaire was so far away out of her grasp. She messaged me 30 minutes after our session, and then three days saying, I can feel it.
[00:00:18] I am the millionaire. It feels inevitable. It feels happy. It feels, it feels, it feels correct. By the end of today’s episode, you’re going to hear my story on that millionaire identity.
[00:00:43] It’s something that I’ve never ever shared before, and you’re going to have a somatic understanding of, of who you are as a millionaire, which is going to give you the clear steps to work towards it.
[00:01:00] If we’re not quite there in the bank account, we’re going to be using a somatic nervous system based approach to get you towards your own version of financial freedom.
[00:01:09] What I’m about to share with you is based on the understanding that your body is always trying to create more of what it perceives to be safe. What it perceives to be safe is the thing that it’s currently experiencing that makes it not die. It’s just cared with you. It only cares about you not dying.
[00:01:23] Therefore, you can have a conscious, desire. but your body might just not be interested in giving you the thoughts, feelings, actions, and impulses that are going to get you there simply because it hasn’t been that before. And so because it hasn’t been that before, it’s not sure that it won’t die if it’s not there.
[00:01:39] Therefore, what we need to do is create a culture inside of your body, create an environment inside of your body, where becoming a millionaire not only feels safe, but it actually feels like a really good idea to all of the parts of you that tend to be a little bit more primal that want to just keep us in the status quo and are only concerned with not dying based on the information that they have about the world that is often
[00:02:00] influenced by conditioning and trauma.
[00:02:02] The other thing to understand is that millionaires are con are created through compound interest and compound actions. They’re not created through one thing that you do one time. They’re created through you doing little things many, many times over, even if like, we’ll go compound interest. You make a little bit of interest now and then, and then you’re going to make more interest tomorrow.
[00:02:23] And then we keep going the Japanese. I think that Ikai, Ikai, Ikuno, there’s a, there’s a Japanese method of understanding this. If I just do one thing, improve 1 percent each day, then I’m going to get to where I want. Okay. Before we can continue, and I can share with you this secret of how to step into your millionaire identity using a somatic approach, I want us to understand why we are where we are and what happens if we keep going where we are. At this point, you’ve probably done some courses on business.
[00:02:54] You’ve listened to podcasts on mindset, you know, you’ve done your anxieties for your therapy and you’ve
[00:03:00] probably had a coach that’s promised you some type of proven model to success and maybe some of it worked and maybe some of it didn’t. If there’s any part of you that’s feeling a little bit depleted or skeptical, that’s fine.
[00:03:11] You’ve done nothing wrong or cool. That part of you is welcome here and I’m not going to be promising you anything. What I want you to get curious about before we keep going is what is the compound interest of not stepping into your millionaire identity today? If you keep believing that your millionaire identity, that you being a millionaire somewhere in the future, somewhere away from you, keep making decisions based and taking action in the same way that you’ve been doing so in the past couple of weeks or months or years, where will you end up?
[00:03:42] For me personally, I asked myself this question, I think it was maybe two years ago and I wrote down something and it kind of went like this. If I kept doing exactly what I was doing, I would continue waking up with that like icky feeling in my chest and then
[00:04:00] anxiety. And then I would, rush throughout my day feeling like, ah, something is wrong and something is off.
[00:04:05] But I would just like mask that with busyness and I would feel exhausted. If I continued the way that I was in six months, I would diving into my not supportive habits. So drinking a little bit too much wine, not going to the gym, snapping at my loved ones, the relationships that I’ve been working really hard to support, grinding my teeth, impulse shopping.
[00:04:29] You know, I feel shitty in my body. My bank account looks bad. My relationships are not good. If I kept going the way that I was going in six years, I would have spent literally thousands of dollars and hundreds and thousands of hours of my time with limited return on my investment. I would be guilty. I would be sorry.
[00:04:48] I’d be feeling guilty. I would have been feeling guilty. I don’t know why. That’s my thing. I would have been pretty depressed. I would have been lethargic. I would have been bitter and angry. I would have been completely hopeless about my financial future and I would be looking back on my life thinking, what the hell, Sheridan?[00:05:00]
[00:05:00] Things were going pretty well there. You had an opportunity. You did not take advantage of it and you literally created the result that you were working so hard not to. That was my reality. It is probably similar to yours and that propelled me to understand this and to go and look at the semantics of it.
[00:05:17] Our body’s always looking to recreate what it perceives to be safe. Here’s the thing. If you were always striving, you’re always in the energy of like, Oh, I’m almost there. I’m going to get there. It’s going to continue recreating that because that’s safe. You’re never going to get them. I love, you’re never going to get there.
[00:05:32] You’re also going to continue identifying with your fears and your shame and your guilt. And you’re going to continue looking at the world through fear and shame and guilt until you do this thing. We call it hold the pose. I teach this inside of all of my group programs. It is extremely powerful. I did not understand how powerful it was going to be.
[00:05:50] It’s just something that I started adopting because I was like, okay, cool. Well, if I’m not my fears, if I’m not my shame, if I’m not my guilt, who the freaking hell am I? Oh, I can [00:06:00] be the millionaire. Oh, like it’s, it’s not even about the money. It’s Oh, I am today right now. I, the person I am today is the millionaire.
[00:06:09] The rest of the things is catching up. The money is catching up. The bank account is catching up. That’s fine. That will continue to catch up. I can hold in my body that I’m the millionaire because I am because I’m the same person. I don’t have to change anything about myself. Yes, there is fear that tells me I need to change and yes, there’s shame that tells me that I’m wrong and if there is guilt that tells me that I’m doing something off and maybe there’s anger, but I am she who holds all of that.
[00:06:34] And so you step into your millionaire identity when you begin to identify with and semantically concrete inside of you that you are she who holds it all. You have enough. Now, yes, fear, shame, anxiety. On the other side, there is wisdom. They’re going to give you the steps to move forward. They’re going to keep you moving forward, but you are not fundamentally different to people who have more
[00:07:00] money in their bank account or a higher net worth, you know what to do with your finances and those have somatic anchors.
[00:07:08] Those somatic anchors are something that we’re going to explore inside of how to sustainably make money as an entrepreneur, which we did yesterday. Okay. so you can get the recording for that below and inside of financially fierce so that you walk away really feeling this in your bones. I want you to just feel, feel that in your bones. You have enough. Now, you know, enough. Now, you have fear, you have shame, you have anxiety. You can take actions today that lead up and compound over time to. That number in your bank account being your network, but you have to change now.
[00:07:46] You have to decide now to change. This is not something that you’re going to wait until next month and next week. You have to change now because if you don’t change now, you will continue having the same results. And I’m sorry, [00:08:00]this is painful for you sometimes to hear, but I believe that you’re capable.
[00:08:04] If you don’t change now, you will continue having the same results. Change doesn’t have to be hard. Sometimes it can feel overwhelming, but it has to happen now. If you want something to change, you have to change, you make a decision, you move forward, you ask, how can I make this work? And you change. So step into your millionaire identity.
[00:08:20] You can feel that semantics in the body and can begin to untangle the different things inside of you, the fear, the shame, the guilt, begin to identify more with she who holds it all. And therefore, yeah, I can be an, I can be a millionaire because when I’m a million, I’m also going to have those problems.
[00:08:38] I’m also going to have fear and shame. It’s not going to change. And then you take action to put yourself in, groups, systems, supportive spaces, work with therapists, work with coaches who help you understand that this is deeply who you are as of today, you don’t need to wait any longer. You’re going to do that inside of financially fierce.
[00:08:58] Can’t wait to see you [00:09:00] there.