Mmm she’s so good at her job and she makes sales seem so easy!
Don’t you secretly want to be as good as she is? MAYBE she’s even tried to teach you… but you probably can’t quite get the secret down until you master THIS skill I’m teaching you in today’s episode.
By the end of today’s episode you’ll know:
Recommended episode:
58: How to Heal the Worthiness Wound to Receive More Love and Money. Click here to listen.
TRANSCRIPT:
[00:00:00] If you’ve ever thought, Oh, I wish I could just sell as easily as my mentor. Today’s episode is going to teach you the buddy based way to make that possible. By the end of today, you are going to find the secret key that you’ve been searching for to your success as well as the three step buddy based process to become as magnetic and successful as your mentor and how to sell and bring in income in a way that it is effortless, easy and consistent.
[00:00:40] I’m going to be blunt. I mean, I get to the point, you guys know, I like to go deep and be honest. And for some of you, this, this answer might actually annoy you a little bit because the honest truth is your mentor is out there using a business and marketing strategy that It’s [00:01:00]probably in the way that you’re seeing it.
[00:01:02] At least we don’t actually know cause you never really know anything. It’s probably working quite well for her and there’s probably a part of you that is looking at the things that that person is doing and thinking, well, how could I replicate that? And would that work for me? And what would I do inside him?
[00:01:17] What would that look like? And maybe I can just learn from them and maybe they can teach me. And perhaps you’ve even bought like some type of. I don’t know, marketing or sales or copywriting or digital marketing or wealth practice from them. And maybe it’s gotten some level of results, which is awesome. I love that.
[00:01:35] But it’s probably not gotten all of the results that you desire because it’s probably a part of you that feels like, Oh, there’s a little bit something missing. And like, it’s, you know, I’m doing all these things, but it’s not quite as easy and embodied and effortless as it appears that it could be. I feel like there’s something missing.
[00:01:50] And you’re right. There is because everything that you’re learning from your mentor or the person that you admire about sales and about [00:02:00]marketing and about business is not made for you. Your body was not made for their strategy. Their body was not made for yours. Perhaps the thing that you are noticing that you are admiring in somebody else is embodiment.
[00:02:17] For some people, embodiment and sales looks a little bit more of that, like fiery, fierce, airy qualities. Like Aries qualities, you know, that like go and get them and they’re bold. For others, it’s soft and it’s reserved and it’s almost quite soft spoken. And whatever you’re seeing inside of that other person is telling you, Oh, I would like to like play around a little bit more with that.
[00:02:48] But what’s truly happening, and you can do shadow work around it, and you can look at what you admire in other people and start playing around with those different qualities in yourself. What is [00:03:00] driving even that intelligence is something that we call somatic intelligence. Somatic intelligence runs through the veins and the fascia and the muscles and the bones of every single person that exists inside of the world.
[00:03:14] It is the innate intelligence that all beings have, you know, even trees have it in a way. Somatic meaning embodied. Soma means to be of the body. It’s intelligence that’s running through your body and it communicates to you through sensation, through emotion, through thought, through impulse, and through stillness.
[00:03:32] Historically in both Western and Eastern or Middle Eastern practices, we’ve, we’re given this idea of there’s something inside of us that propels us forward towards what is good for ourselves and what is good for others. What happens when you have a scab or you have a cut, you cut your body and your body knows how to heal itself. But if you keep Kind of like picking at the scab from the cut or you put it in an environment where it’s not supported, then your body [00:04:00]can’t activate that somatic intelligence and it won’t heal.
[00:04:02] And it’ll get like icky and gross. And, and you’ll kind of look at them like, why isn’t it healing? Why isn’t it working and doing the thing that it’s supposed to do? It’s because, well, the environment,
[00:04:13] And so perhaps, maybe the person that you admire is working with their somatic intelligence. Perhaps they put away the rules and you’re still trying to figure out rules. You’re still trying to figure out what it is that somebody else did in order to have success or what it is that I’m doing in order to have success, but you’re not learning how to access your own version of success inside of yourself.
[00:04:40] Now here’s the good news. You’ve landed in the And the corner of the internet. Well, I will not let you use anyone else. Use your dad or use that person on Instagram or use your cousin or that person that you really admire from your yoga class, or even use me to tell you what is going to be best for you.[00:05:00]
[00:05:00] I will not let you do that. I will help you put away all of the rules, put away the, the environment that doesn’t let you access the intelligent, intuitive, creative, and supported part of you, put away all of it. And I will support you in creating an environment, meaning a business that supports you financially and environment inside of your body, inside of your mind that supports you in accessing that innate part of you that knows exactly what you need for sustainable income that you love, that turns you on, that lights you up, that is living inside of your body. Hi guys, this is Freya and she is building her business alongside of you and she is also using somatic intelligence and this is a very good question. You access it using my methodology. The body based business method, this is a methodology that I have used as well as hundreds of clients to create income in a way that is easy.
[00:05:58] to improve [00:06:00] relationships in a way that is nourishing, to feel safe, to decrease burnout for so many different things. There are three pillars. Number one is regulation, because your intelligence comes out through safety. It comes out through that calming environment. Like I said, the second pillar is trauma healing.
[00:06:21] And so perhaps you’re even holding this belief, um, that was, kind of fermented or like integrated or concreted into a should that is stopping you from accessing your somatic intelligence. Maybe it’s like, I shouldn’t. Be lazy. Well, maybe you should, maybe you should be lazy. Maybe that’s your intelligence.
[00:06:44] Maybe laziness is simplicity and ease. Or maybe you are holding another should around something that you perceive as a weakness. Sometimes I’ve had a client earlier today and she was like, well, I just feel like I’m not flexible enough. Well maybe that [00:07:00] means you’re strong and discerning. Maybe that’s your semantic intelligence.
[00:07:04] So you probably have all of these different qualities inside of you that you are possibly labeling as good or right, like right or wrong, but there are no inherently bad qualities in humans. There were only situations that either support them or support them. So what qualities inside of yourself have you decided are bad or wrong and perhaps in your business, could they be useful?
[00:07:27] The third thing we do is we build a business where your inherent qualities are useful. We build a business strategy. We build office. We perfect and master your mastery and your sales strategy. We anchor into all of it. We embody the version of you that is the most you, and we build a business that supports you being the most you at your own pace.
[00:07:49] And then as a result, and through practice and momentum, you become the person who sells as effortlessly as your mentor. Which is exactly what you [00:08:00]wanted to begin with. Now keep listening to the podcast to begin practicing this. Of course, if you’re interested in working with me and learning exactly how to do this, like I said, I’m not interested in you learning how to do it the way that I do it.
[00:08:13] We’re learning how to do it the way that your friend does it. No, I’m learning. You’re going to do it the way that you’re a somatic intelligence. You’re going to sell, you’re going to market, you’re going to do business, you’re going to do money. You’re going to do it in the way that you need to do it and you need to believe that you are worthy of that.
[00:08:27] So if you haven’t already listened to episode number 58 called How to Heal the Worthiness Wound to Receive More Love and Money, I highly recommend that you do so. You will find the link below to that. This is quickly becoming one of the most popular episodes. It’s probably going to surpass, um, the foundational episode number 39, which like jumped to the most popular.
[00:08:48] So yeah, check that out if you haven’t already. Number 58, How to Heal the Worthiness Wound to Receive More Love and Money.
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